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Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Momoi: Uaua, cantik kan tu hotel kita pigi tadi?

Uaua: Momoi, tadi kita pigi airport laa... bukan hotel.

I can't help but put a big grin on my face. Oh my dear Momoi - sorry you were not properly introduced to the place called airport. I must admit the KKIA airport looks nice and when we were at the MAS ticketing office she must have felt as though she's at the hotel lobby. I wasn't impressed by the service though - I don't think they handled my frustration on their lousy internet service very well.

Now I just love flying using firefly - too bad they only have limited flights to KL in a day. Hope they'll add some more flights soon.

Thursday, October 28, 2010

STRESSED...

I'm stressed.....because

1. I found out that I lost my SD card (I hope whoever found the little blue rectangular 256Mb thingy will return it to me... It got lots of pictures of kids & me & my mom in it).

2. The milk container I've done packing fell when Momoi was trying to help and I have to wipe the floor and re-fill the container and wash the milk bag again.

3. The kids (Uaua & Momoi) was teasing each other in the car and after sometimes Momoi start screaming because she cannot take the teasing.

4. Titi also screaming because he wants to join the crowd.

5. Titi insist the world Cup song - Waka-Waka to be played and he will start to sing along. When either Uaua or Momoi start to sing-along, Titi will start screaming again until both Uaua and Momoi stop singing (He wants to sing and everyone just listen and this happens in the car).

6. When we reach home, Uaua, Momoi & Titi start asking for this and that... while Noah start to cry because he doen't like to be left alone in the baby cot (Well, Noah also wants this and that...)

7. Well... I'm used to all the above 2-6 (it's my daily life now) but what makes me stress even more is NO. 1.... ohhh where is my SD.... Hubby said forget about it... maybe I will (but I still hope to find it somewhere). It feels like a piece of my mind is lost when I lost it because I usually carry it around in my handbag until yesterday when I noticed it was gone... gone...

I want it back so much not because the RM value (SD cards are soo affordable nowadays) but for the sentimental value of the pictures that it contain. Soooo... if anyone happen to get the SD card please return to me (including the kiddos k... if you been playing with Mama's stuff please return to Mama immediately - as if the kids read my blog hehe)

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Rest in Peace Mom

Born: 26th September 1947 Departed: 21st May 2010
Here's a picture of mom taken on 18th February 2010. That's 3 months before she left us forever. When mom left us a mixture of feelings happen to me. I can be sad as sad I can be but I can't be too sad also because I am carrying a baby and I have my own family to worry. So many things happens that even my aunt Beatrice is so worried how am I going to cope with my own life and health. I even have to call her everyday to tell her that everything is OK. God bless you aunty. Thanks so much for your love, care and support - like my sister said Aunty Beatrice has become our second mom. Now 3 weeks has passed, I just had to be strong and try to appreciate what's left and all the blessings that happen along the way. In fact, in the midst of troubles I find that God has blessed me with so many wonderful people and events/circumstances that take my worries away. Many times how I wish mom would still be here to see her 4th grandson arrive in the labour room like she did for the rest of the grandchildren. I never had confinement lady because mom will cook my favorite chicken lihing soup, herbal bath and even bake me a cheese cake when I had Titi. Now that mom is gone, I guess I have to learn to be even stronger. Especially with the coming of our new baby. God, please give me the courage to face the coming days and wisdom to decide when troubles come my way. Mom - missing you terribly but don't worry about me. I'm one tough cookie. Just want to share a piece of thought (I might use this with my own children someday)... taken from: inspiringthots
A Parent's Wish

To our dear child, On the day when you see us old, weak and weary, Have patience and try to understand us.

If we get dirty when eating, If we can not dress on our own, Please bear with us and remember the times We spent feeding and dressing you up.

If, when we speak to you, We repeat the same things over and over again, Do not interrupt us. Listen to us.

When you were small, We had to read to you thousand and one times The same story until you went to sleep.

hen we do not want to have a shower, Neither shame nor scold us. Remember when we had to chase you With your thousand excuses to get you to the shower.

When you see our ignorance on new technologies, Help us navigate our way through those world wide webs.

We taught you how to do so many things, To eat the right foods, to dress appropriately, To fight for your rights.

Then at some moment we lose the memory Or the thread of our conversation, Let us have the necessary time to remember. And if we can not, do not become nervous,

As the most important thing is not our conversation, But surely to be with you and to have you listening to us.

If ever we do not want to eat, do not force us. We know well when we need to and when not to.

When our tired legs give way And do not allow us to walk without a cane, Lend us your hand. The same way we did, you first tried your faltering steps.

And when someday we say to you, That we do not want to live any more. That we want to die! Do not get angry. Some day you will understand.

Try to understand that our age is not lived but survived. Some day you will realize that, despite our mistakes, We always wanted the best thing for you And we tried to prepare the way for you.

You must not feel sad, angry nor ashamed For seeing us near you. Instead, try to understand us and help us Like we did when you were young.

Help us to walk. Help us to end our way with love and dignity.

We will pay you by a smile and by the immense love We have always had for you in our heart.

We love you child, Mom and Dad

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

I want this...



This is i-Roomba. With a push of a button, it can vacuum the floors and intelligent enough to avoid falling from stairs and hitting the wall. Read more about it here.

I've seen this product when I visited the Mother & Baby Expo at MVEC 2 years back. I wanted to get this i-Robot thingy but hubby said it'll be another junk in the house. But, this time around I think I'll seriously need this if I'm not getting a maid to do the vacuuming and house cleaning.

Now I just have to find ways to get this "baby" into my arms.

Friday, April 23, 2010

Revision and bla-bla-bla...

Just wanna paste a link here on Breasfeeding Colicky Baby for my self-revision and reminder. It's been 6 months since I last breastfeed little Titi and I feel that I need to re-learn the skill again with the new baby.

On another note- here's something I heard on RTM1 pidato Antarabangsa competition (don't get me wrong -I don't always switch to RTM1 and watch this kind of program but that was during my out-station trip to KL and was left with limited channels to choose from).

"Seorang ibu boleh membesarkan 10 orang anak tetapi, belum tentu 10 orang anak ini boleh menjaga seorang ibu yang tua."

In this current era where everyone is earning a living (either by choice or by circumstances), this statement has some thruth. We tend to neglect our parents, but what is the little time we have to spend with them everyday as compared to the years they have spent raising us up until what we are today.

We need to sacrifice a bit of our time for them while they are still around no matter how busy we are - after all when they are gone all is left is the memory we have with them. So it is our choice really - whether we want to have good memory that we have done our best while they are still alive or regrets for not having done our responsibility as children.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Wishful thinking...

I did another Glucose Tolerance Test (GTT) today - the usual test I would do everytime I get pregnant. I dislike the glassful of glucose on empty stomach. It made me dizzy and nauseous. I dislike the needles, they need to take 3 blood samples (each sample one hour apart). I dislike the long wait. But, yay! Test ended just now. I hope I don't need to do this test again ever in my life.

Anyway, on another note I've been contemplating last night what to do after the baby arrive. I expect "extra-busy" will be my vocabulary everyday. Now, with 3 kids at home with no maid somehow I can still manage the house and work. Not sure when it's 4 though. The first year is always the difficult year. Sometimes, I wonder how other mothers with 8-9 kids manage their family. Hubby casually mentioned to me last night that perhaps they are full-time housewives.

However, I'm in a situation where I'm holding 2 important posts right now - one where I answer to my boss who pays my salary every month-end and the other one where I answer to God, kids and hubby who pay no salary only satisfaction when all things turned out well. The question now is it still possible for me to keep this 2 posts with 4 kids + 1 hubby needing attention and a house and business to run? I need to device some ways to make life manageable. After brainstorming last night I came out with a list of stuff that could make my life easier (whether it's available in the market, that I have to find out)...

1. Washer and Dryer (so I can just dump the dirty laundry and it'll come out clean and dry)
2. Home-cooking catering with home delivery service (anyone who does this business please contact me)
3. Robot (Hubby laughed at this idea - well I need a robot who can do all the folding, vacuuming and mopping. I've seen one that does vacuuming and mopping not sure about folding though.)
4. Dishwasher and Dish dryer

Hey, that's not that many isn't it. So I guess my life will still be manageable with 4 kids provided we have someone to look after them while we go to work. No need to worry so much now.

I need a lot of patient and help me God so that I have plenty of them.

Monday, October 19, 2009

Busy month...

My 10 years service bond officially ends on the 1st October just before I turned 32 and that is the start of my crazy daily schedule as an employee, a mom, a wife, a maid, a teacher, and hehe... not forgetting "milking cow".

Celebrated my birthday on Saturday with kids and hubby, house chores on Sunday, visit my mom on Sunday and birthday dinner with mom, FLy to KL on Monday and come back to KK on Tuesday, meeting in KK on Wednesday, Fly to KL on Thursday and come back to KK on Friday, House chores on Saturday, Family Dinner with distant relative on Saturday Night, Gaya Street tour with distant relative, Continue house chores Sunday evening, visit mom Sunday evening, dinner at MIL Sunday evening, Internal meeting on Monday, Fly to Sandakan on Tuesday and come back on the same day, Meeting with customer on Wednesday in KK, Fly to KL on Wednesday and come back to KK on Thursday and finally took a day leave on Friday! Whew.... (At the end of the week I wondered to myself - where did the days go...)

Two weeks ago I was really negative and skeptical on being able to survive the busiest week without having too much stress. I told myself to take a day at a time and I did it! Plus we were able to cinch a deal with the management on something I've been working on since 3 or more years ago... hooray!!! but the deal is we have to finish it in 1.5 years - our staff is going to blow their heads off when they hear this from us. And my boss finally granted me a day leave I deserve as I've been working hard. Now I wish to have long holidays to spend with hubby and kids... I still have 30days leave entitlement... hehe... looks like something can be arranged here.

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

My Stick Family





Cute Heh... Next time I'll paste the code somewhere.

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Maid Issue

I'm very much in agreement with the letter in today's the Star - tele-working to solve the maid issue. In fact, most of us working parents do not really need a maid if we can have flexible time and work-condition or if we can have local home nursing service that we can depend on to take care of our children and elderly.

The government should also do more to help it's people by perhaps training our own citizen to be professional nurse and house helpers. After all getting a Indonesian maid nowadays is not as easy and cheap as it used to be. So we might as well spend the money to train our locals and recognize Nursing (Child and Elderly) and house helpers as careers/skilled jobs.

Imagine our young locals from rural areas come to town to work as handphone sellers, cleaning lady, coffee shop assistants, etc and earning RM450-500. That is the same wage we are paying our imported maid plus approx RM 1,500 for their documents and not forgetting the free lodging and food. While our locals who are paid the same salary have to pay house rents, bus fare & own food for the same or almost the same workload.

Isn't it wonderful if we can pay our own people to do the job rather than being too dependant on imported work-force and at the same time we are also creating more job opportunities for our own people.

Before this can be realised of course we need to educate our own people to accept Home Nursing as a career so that it will not be looked down and thought as less glamourous job by our own society.

Well, that's my opinion as I actually need helpers at home to deal with the house work so that I can have some rest and more time with the kids and also someone to care/assist my parents. Other that I'm pretty happy with whatever arrangement I have now.

Wednesday July 1, 2009

Why not try tele-working?


WHENEVER we hear of maids being abused, there will be a knee-jerk reaction by many parties.

I think, instead of “fire-fighting”, the Government should look into the reasons why we need maids, and who are the ones needing the maids. A majority of them are working parents with young children or elderly to care for.

There has been suggestion of setting up day-care centres at offices. While it is a noble idea, it doesn’t work if you have school-going children as you need someone to pick them up from school and send them to their tuition or extra classes in the afternoon.

Since most offices are away from homes, it is not practical to send the kids to day-care centres in offices when they need to go to schools near their homes.

While there are transportation and transit services available, the cost could be too high for a family with three to four school-going children. Having a maid is still a cheaper option.

Most of the households that require maids are working couples. To reduce their dependency on maids, why not allow workers to tele-work? You can do video conferencing, Skype, email, etcetra from home and get your work done. While the children are in school, one can still go to the office for team meetings or meeting clients.

If your child goes to a typical Sekolah Kebangsaan and Sekolah Agama like mine, they will be in school from 7.30am to 1.30pm, then 2.30pm to 5.30pm. That is a lot of time for one to do work (housework and office work) at home or outside. You can still continue your work after 5.30pm if you need to after picking up the children from afternoon classes.

Such an arrangement will reduce our dependancy on maids because at least one parent is at home to handle housework and child-minding, and at the same time, there is no (or little) loss of income for the household.

I wish our Government and corporate organisations would realise the many benefits of allowing their workers to tele-work. Having a parent at home with the children is better than having a foreigner whom you barely trust to take care of your most prized possessions, your children. And for the employer, there will be no loss of manpower since the employee still has to achieve the goals set by the company.

If countries like the United States, Britain, Sweden have done it, why can’t we? This is the same question that I and a few friends asked our HR manager in our company 10 years ago. I have also been involved in various dialogues with NGOs on teleworking for the past eight years since I started my business from home. But until now, we have yet to see it being implemented effectively.

I urge the Government and related parties to seriously consider allowing and implementing the tele-working policy for the benefit of all of us, espcially our future generation.

DAYANG LILY ABANG MUAS,
Shah Alam, Selangor.

Thursday, May 21, 2009

10 years... now what?

I'm in this particular stage of my life (career-wise) - I call it the "cross-road" where I have to decide to turn left or right or just move on. For the past few months I've been thinking about it. Until now I'm still not sure what to do but I have this yearning to turn right or left and not go ahead.

There are a few motivations for me to think this way (not in particular order):-
1. I need a change of environment
2. I love my family
3. I love my kids
4. My bond is finally coming to an end
5. I want to spend more time with the kids
6. I'm exhausted - I need a break
7. I want to do something that I like in my own time

and if I can find ways to do what I want to do and still get the same pay I would. Haha... I'm stuck in a situation. God help me.

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Busy Momma

Latest update... I've been busy for the past one month. My mom was not feeling well which add up to the existing busy schedule of minding the kids and family business (the usual stuff - cooking, washing, folding etc).

I have to KIV anything to do with shopping, pampering myself, internet or hobbies until everything settle into normal mode again.

So for now, I shall concentrate on my work which was left untouched for 2 months - my boss did some of the little task while I'm away. Thanks Boss!

The other half of my time shall be spent on the kids and family.

Life as a mum is always busy but I'm not complaining because as the kids grows it will get easier. So for the time being just go with the flow.

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Are we more protective of our girls than our boys?

Yes, were are protective of both our children and it's right to be protective due to the social environment we have today.

During one of those days, the following were the conversation I had with darling hubby..

Hubby: Momoi is sooo adorable and cute kan?

Me: Ya napa?

Hubby: Haiya... If baby already cute dunno what happen she's grown-up later... people say if you have a son - you only have to worry about his dick, but if you have a daughter - you have to worry about all the dicks in town...

Me: :-D (I agree...) And it's even more worrying as your daughter likes to strip her pants when she wants out from the cot (or get attention)...


Tadaaa... No baju.
Nah... nah... take this...

Hee... so happy to be "baju-less"...

As parents it's valid to be protective to our children regardless of whether it's a boy or girl, sometimes when you read the newspaper there are so many abuse, kidnapping, rape, torture etc cases involving kids. And sometimes, it involves kids (girls) below 6 yrs - dunno what those moron see in a 6 yr old. Not sure what kind of people out there - maybe animal not human.

Gone are the days when, girls (or now even boys) can just walk out of the house by themselves and go to park or visit friends house to have their evening time-off. Kids nowadays tend to spend more time at home - but there are also dangers of spend time at home especially with what we have in the internet and tv programs.

There should be balance and parents play an important role to teach children how to balance - for me and darling hubby, we are still learning and ask God to guide us in bringing up our kids. I don't want to have super-brainy or super-power kids, I just want my kids to have a normal life and something that they will remember when they grow up later.

Monday, August 25, 2008

Home Sweet Home... Here I come...

Huhu... Finally, I'm going home in a few hours time. It's been such a long weekend for me - WORKING! And I'm not proud of it!

I am not a work-freak person but my kind of job requires me to work at odd hours and even during weekends. I went to KL on Friday evening and had a meeting on Saturday morning. I imagine, everyone at home having a nice weekend off except for darling hubby perhaps as he have to take care of the 2 kids again. Sorry darling to trouble you again- you're the best-est Papa and hubby and we all love you.

Well, I thought the meeting will end early - 11 am ish, but I ended up going back to the hotel close to 4 p.m. And after that I have to do some more work as I need to submit the report by Monday morning before 12pm... Cruel isn't it? I already didn't have any weekend off and ask me to work day and night on Sunday some more. And today I have to attend another workshop here again with the big guns in the company (as compared to me I'm just a small fish - the victim). I wish to be home straight away, smell the sweet smelling kids and home and hubby. I miss home....

I always mention to hubby, all the money we accumulate from our salary are for our family and kids. As such we should never neglect our family and kids... there should be balance because if we become crazy chasing after our careers we might end up not spending precious time with our family and kids. Well, now look who's talking... I even thought I want to resign and apply for secretarial post only (job that doesn't require much of time away from home and not much thinking).

Sometimes, in fact most of the times I envy women who can stay at home and be a tai-tai... but I can't possibly do that yet. Perhaps, one day if I strike a lottery I would resign 24 hours.... hahaha. What a dream.

**Good thing KLIA have WiFi and I can blog from here. I've been carrying this damn heavy notebook the whole weekend and wanted to throw it in the dustbin. Fortunately, I can do this blog here and thought it's a good thing I carry this notebook with me.

Friday, July 18, 2008

Maroon


What colour are you?
Maroon You are a creative mind that loves to express yourself in diffrent ways. Your friends often come to you for advice but you don’t really know why. You can be two entire different people. It really depends on your surroundings and the situation. Having fun is a big part of your life but you alsow want some time to yourself or just a minute or two to relax. You hate when things are taken too seriously and think that the world whould be bettre if people could just cut eachother some slak!.. You are a layback person and dislikes doing things in a hurry. You have a couple of friends that you really understand and feel you get something back from, but you do have some that you feel are just tagging along.
Numbers: odd numbers and numbers in a signifigant order.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Petrol Station on Strike?

Not sure if this is a scare or the real thing. But people been queuing up since 2-3 pm to fill-up their tanks again causing jams in major roads. I'm also not sure where the news come from or who started all this hullabaloo but it sure does affect averyone even you are not interested.

So for today, hubby suggested we go home early as he was on leave also and available to pick me and the kids early to avoid the jams.

It's 5.30 pm. Time to go... Hubby is waiting in front of me.

Friday, May 23, 2008

Blog Neglected

Poor blog...

I've been neglecting this blog of mine for almost a month now due to laziness and a lot of office work that I even need to do at home.

I know it's just excuses but I also do not want to deprive myself of my beauty sleep which I hardly get nowadays and I will sleep anytime I get the chance. So I ended up going to bed as early as 8.30pm (that's the time when I put my daughter to sleep and while putting her to sleep I join in the dreamland too). Weekends are for house cleaning and resting - no pc time. Too tired looking at pc.

Anyway, last week my dad-in-law asked if I already update my blog and so here I am updating my blog again. I still have a lot of work to do but at least I've already done my draft and I only need a little sorting and cleaning-up to do (I mean office work). If you wonder why I'm talking about my office work like house cleaning, well maybe I got mixed up with both.

Update, my dad-in-law got a friend who can do part-time house cleaning. Yay... soon I'll get the help I need(I still need to wait till she's free to do it though) . The house in dire need of cleaning and I've got no energy and time to do it.

Maybe, if I get rest time not cleaning the house during the weekends I have more time to tend to this blog. Maybe only....

Monday, April 28, 2008

What's your personality type




You Are An ISFJ



The Nurturer



You have a strong need to belong, and you very loyal.

A good listener, you excel at helping others in practical ways.

In your spare time, you enjoy engaging your senses through art, cooking, and music.

You find it easy to be devoted to one person, who you do special things for.



In love, you express your emotions through actions.

Taking care of someone is how you love them. And you do it well!



At work, you do well in a structured environment. You complete tasks well and on time.

You would make a good interior designer, chef, or child psychologist.



How you see yourself: Competent, dependable, and detail oriented



When other people don't get you, they see you as: Boring, dominant, and stuck in a rut

Friday, March 7, 2008

Another Tagboard...

Just a short post...

I'm in the process of putting up new tagboard on this blog due to the tagboard by cbox is blocked by our administrator - That's why there are 2 tagboard in this blog.