Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Maid Issue

I'm very much in agreement with the letter in today's the Star - tele-working to solve the maid issue. In fact, most of us working parents do not really need a maid if we can have flexible time and work-condition or if we can have local home nursing service that we can depend on to take care of our children and elderly.

The government should also do more to help it's people by perhaps training our own citizen to be professional nurse and house helpers. After all getting a Indonesian maid nowadays is not as easy and cheap as it used to be. So we might as well spend the money to train our locals and recognize Nursing (Child and Elderly) and house helpers as careers/skilled jobs.

Imagine our young locals from rural areas come to town to work as handphone sellers, cleaning lady, coffee shop assistants, etc and earning RM450-500. That is the same wage we are paying our imported maid plus approx RM 1,500 for their documents and not forgetting the free lodging and food. While our locals who are paid the same salary have to pay house rents, bus fare & own food for the same or almost the same workload.

Isn't it wonderful if we can pay our own people to do the job rather than being too dependant on imported work-force and at the same time we are also creating more job opportunities for our own people.

Before this can be realised of course we need to educate our own people to accept Home Nursing as a career so that it will not be looked down and thought as less glamourous job by our own society.

Well, that's my opinion as I actually need helpers at home to deal with the house work so that I can have some rest and more time with the kids and also someone to care/assist my parents. Other that I'm pretty happy with whatever arrangement I have now.

Wednesday July 1, 2009

Why not try tele-working?


WHENEVER we hear of maids being abused, there will be a knee-jerk reaction by many parties.

I think, instead of “fire-fighting”, the Government should look into the reasons why we need maids, and who are the ones needing the maids. A majority of them are working parents with young children or elderly to care for.

There has been suggestion of setting up day-care centres at offices. While it is a noble idea, it doesn’t work if you have school-going children as you need someone to pick them up from school and send them to their tuition or extra classes in the afternoon.

Since most offices are away from homes, it is not practical to send the kids to day-care centres in offices when they need to go to schools near their homes.

While there are transportation and transit services available, the cost could be too high for a family with three to four school-going children. Having a maid is still a cheaper option.

Most of the households that require maids are working couples. To reduce their dependency on maids, why not allow workers to tele-work? You can do video conferencing, Skype, email, etcetra from home and get your work done. While the children are in school, one can still go to the office for team meetings or meeting clients.

If your child goes to a typical Sekolah Kebangsaan and Sekolah Agama like mine, they will be in school from 7.30am to 1.30pm, then 2.30pm to 5.30pm. That is a lot of time for one to do work (housework and office work) at home or outside. You can still continue your work after 5.30pm if you need to after picking up the children from afternoon classes.

Such an arrangement will reduce our dependancy on maids because at least one parent is at home to handle housework and child-minding, and at the same time, there is no (or little) loss of income for the household.

I wish our Government and corporate organisations would realise the many benefits of allowing their workers to tele-work. Having a parent at home with the children is better than having a foreigner whom you barely trust to take care of your most prized possessions, your children. And for the employer, there will be no loss of manpower since the employee still has to achieve the goals set by the company.

If countries like the United States, Britain, Sweden have done it, why can’t we? This is the same question that I and a few friends asked our HR manager in our company 10 years ago. I have also been involved in various dialogues with NGOs on teleworking for the past eight years since I started my business from home. But until now, we have yet to see it being implemented effectively.

I urge the Government and related parties to seriously consider allowing and implementing the tele-working policy for the benefit of all of us, espcially our future generation.

DAYANG LILY ABANG MUAS,
Shah Alam, Selangor.

Monday, June 29, 2009

Theodore is 6 months!

Our cute little Theodore is 6 months and as usual I took some photos for our rememberance. So many snaps but this is my fav...


Theodore at 6 months
Weight: 6.9 kg


Theodore is adored by his 2 siblings and at home he is called TeeTee or Titi or Titing. Both Joshua and Moira loves to play with Theodore or show him new tricks. I'm just afraid that he will grow up too soon as a result of this.

I can see that he is learning fast - he knows tapping on water create splash and now he no longer likes to lie in the bath-tub, he likes to sit instead and play tap-the-water.

He is a very likeable baby and easy to maintain - he sleeps on his own in the baby cot. Even at daytime if he wants to sleep I just put him down and he just sleeps. I am really happy and grateful to have such a wonderful baby like TeeTee.

I let him taste his first formula just a week ago (16 June) and as expected he didn't like the taste - he simply push the bottle with his tongue and smile (hehe... those cheeky smile). Then I use the same technique when I first introduce EBM to him, of course he shows some resistance but since he is hungry he finally took whatever is available to him (kasian... but what to do I was going to KL for 3 days and my stock count was only 16 bottles at that time). Now, occasionally I give him a little formula (only 3 oz a day) to get him familiarize with the taste.

He started on solid (I gave him heinz plain rice cereal) last Saturday (19 June) just one teaspoon initially. Now he can even finish 1.5 tablespoon.


Makan time...

Unfortunately, the bacteria in his urine still haven't cleared off and today I send another urine sample to the clinic after another round of antibiotic - cross my fingers I hope no more bacteria. Otherwise, the doc will have to circumcise him. Other than that our little Theodore is a healthy, friendly and sweet little baby.

Dear Little Theodore - Mama & Papa, Abang Uaua & Kakak Momoi loves you. Muuaah...

Saturday, June 6, 2009

I won these...


RM 200 Cash, RM 200 Hamper (from Johnson&Johnson),
Certificate and Silver Crown


I feel so proud, elated, adrenaline-rush, I-don't-know-how-to-explain feeling when the emcee announced my name as the 2nd prize winner for the "Outstanding Breastfeeding Mother Award" during the "Our Little Wonders - Our Future" Baby Contest held at City Mall today 06 June 2009. I registered TeeTee too for the baby contest. He cried as soon as he saw the judges (perhaps he was terrified by their un-friendly faces).

I didn't expect to win (though I hope to win) as there were so many people. I was tired and the kids need their afternoon nap but luckily hubby suggested we hang around a bit till the result is out.

We didn't manage to take any photo as me & hubby busy minding the kids.With 3 kids on-tow it's hard to move around, we even lost UaUa for a while when I went to take the prize.

I personally feel my breastfeeding experience really paid-off. Special credits to hubby too for the encouragement and support (especially when I'm outstation). Tomorrow, I'm going to watch the news. Most probably the news will come out in the Chinese paper. Heee... I'm just so happy.

I will post the photos once I got hold of it..

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

My 5 months Boy!

My Theodore is 5 months today and it also means I've been fully breastfeeding him for 5 months now! Whew... 1 more month to go before I start him on solid and perhaps a little taste of powered milk (or maybe not - I'm happy to be moo-moo).

For a 5months baby, Theodore is quite tall perhaps he'll grow tall just like his papa. He likes to take bath and he's a friendly and playful baby - like's to laugh at Uaua's playful gesture, even when he is feeding he will smile/laugh if he caught eye contact with me.

Among his favorite pastime, chewing his feet, sucking his hands (not fingers but hands), smilling, rolling over and back, watching telly, making (funny) sound and socializing.


Hehe foot munching time...

Look Ma... No hands...


Hehe... playing peek-a-boo with me this morning



Thursday, May 21, 2009

10 years... now what?

I'm in this particular stage of my life (career-wise) - I call it the "cross-road" where I have to decide to turn left or right or just move on. For the past few months I've been thinking about it. Until now I'm still not sure what to do but I have this yearning to turn right or left and not go ahead.

There are a few motivations for me to think this way (not in particular order):-
1. I need a change of environment
2. I love my family
3. I love my kids
4. My bond is finally coming to an end
5. I want to spend more time with the kids
6. I'm exhausted - I need a break
7. I want to do something that I like in my own time

and if I can find ways to do what I want to do and still get the same pay I would. Haha... I'm stuck in a situation. God help me.

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Hello Darling

It's been a week now Momoi call her papa Darling. I can't believe my ears at first but now it seems the name Papa = Darling to her.
Almost all sentences have the word Darling whenever she talks to Papa... hehe...

Bye Darling
Hello Darling
Darling...Darling....
Please Darling...
Oo..Oo.. Darling...
Mandi Darling...
Darling jalan...
Goodnight Darling...
I love you Darling...
and one song she likes to sing... Oh my Darling... oh my Darling...

Obviously... Papa's girl. We went to see the Paediatrician yesterday and she suggested that I should start calling hubby Papa... but... nah... after all it's soo cute listening to her calling Papa=Darling and I believe the time will pass and she'll be calling Papa = Papa again.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Thank God for more milk...

aaah... This morning I woke up at 5.30 am admiring my growing collection of milk....

Collection on Tuesday...

This morning I have 10 bottles... 5 to the nursery and 5 as a stock.

Perhaps it's madness (my colleague pun kesian at me) but this is the least I can do for my children. If a cow can do it so can I... hehe... small scale industry grade milk.