10 years... now what?

I'm in this particular stage of my life (career-wise) - I call it the "cross-road" where I have to decide to turn left or right or just move on. For the past few months I've been thinking about it. Until now I'm still not sure what to do but I have this yearning to turn right or left and not go ahead.

There are a few motivations for me to think this way (not in particular order):-
1. I need a change of environment
2. I love my family
3. I love my kids
4. My bond is finally coming to an end
5. I want to spend more time with the kids
6. I'm exhausted - I need a break
7. I want to do something that I like in my own time

and if I can find ways to do what I want to do and still get the same pay I would. Haha... I'm stuck in a situation. God help me.